Another Shiduch Problem
People imagine or reckon that older singles are less picky or at least have to be so. So they will recomenend a girl 5 ' 3" 250 pounds age 30 to a boy 5' 7" 150 pounds, andc expect it to work. The answer to that is, that if it disturbed him at 20 & 30 you could be sure at 40 it for sure disturbs him.
A suggestion to the girl:
I know that you are depressed & from rolling out of bed in the morning to dropping in at night you need 100 snacks & three good oily meals or else life is really not worth living. I cannot contemplate your depression, because I am not living through what you are.
However you don't get a second chance for a first impression. If you are really interested ingetting married, don't take the guy who no one else will take & who doesn't really want you. You and him will regret that move and it may be to late to rectify. Go for diet councelling and exerscize, it will be very painful at first, but as you see progress you will feel good with yourself, keep yourself busy other than eating & chew on lettace as your snacks.
Wait until you loose that 100 or 120 pounds dress as well as you possibly ccould before meeting that boy, and be confedent about your looks before and during your meeting. Think about the future and forget about the past.
Go with that possitive feeling this is it. Don't try to impress him, be yourself, and don't let on, how much you are dying for him.
A suggestion to the girl:
I know that you are depressed & from rolling out of bed in the morning to dropping in at night you need 100 snacks & three good oily meals or else life is really not worth living. I cannot contemplate your depression, because I am not living through what you are.
However you don't get a second chance for a first impression. If you are really interested ingetting married, don't take the guy who no one else will take & who doesn't really want you. You and him will regret that move and it may be to late to rectify. Go for diet councelling and exerscize, it will be very painful at first, but as you see progress you will feel good with yourself, keep yourself busy other than eating & chew on lettace as your snacks.
Wait until you loose that 100 or 120 pounds dress as well as you possibly ccould before meeting that boy, and be confedent about your looks before and during your meeting. Think about the future and forget about the past.
Go with that possitive feeling this is it. Don't try to impress him, be yourself, and don't let on, how much you are dying for him.
posted by Shiduchim Crisis at 3:21 PM
2 Comments:
I'm sure you have more then two complaints with the shiduch scene, lets hear them.
Oh man one can't complain, because it doesn't help, one must pray.
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