Just One more Shiduch

Shadchan Dear shadchan, please be honest what is my gain if you knock 7 years of my age.
I get to see a nice sweet young girl, only to dream about her later. She is mad at you for fooling her i am mad at you for wasting my time, and building up my hopes, you made no money, I wasted time & money.
So I ask you one more time just why?