The Chareidi Shiduch Crisis

There are two ways to get married.
1) The way of the world, living together, experimenting.
2) The Torah way arranged shiduchim.
Opinion: when the Chareidi world started compromising, dating, going out, not keeping secrets, going out just for experience, that is the route of the problem. Another problem is when parents are too old, unable, unwilling, or too poor to be of any help & the Bochur & Besulah are on their own.
Any other opinion?